8.31.2011

Keep Your Head Up



Nothing like a great, uplifting song.

8.25.2011

Adele = Amazing

Last Sunday, my BFF and I had the opportunity to go and see Adele in concert together.



She is my new favorite singer.
Absolutely amazing.
I only wish she was booked at a different venue.
One that didn't serve beer to people without lids on the cups.
Because then they push their way through the crowd with said beer cup.
Full to the brim.
And they spill it on you.
All over your blanket, purse and shoes.
And down the back of your best friends shirt.
That was the only downer of the evening.
I seriously could've slapped that girl.
It wasn't done intentionally, but still sucked.

8.21.2011

Trip to Baltimore, MD

I got to go to Baltimore last week for work.  It was a quick little trip and I didn't get to see much.  The goal was to get some free time so I could do the hour drive to Washington D.C., but work got in the way of my fun on my business trip.  It's a shame, really.

I got to visit the Hard Rock Cafe.
And eat some amazing French Toast at the Honey Bee Diner.
Those are the only two pictures I took with my camera.  It's beautiful in Maryland.  It really is.  But most of the beauty I saw was while I was driving around and I can't very well whip out my camera and start taking pictures while I do that, now can I?  It was a neat getaway and I always enjoy going to new places.

Movie in the Park

I love movies in the park in the summer.
This particular one was 'Back to the Future' so, they had a DeLorean there for looks.

Pretty full moon.


We had a great night.  My whole family was able to come, too.  Millcreek City provided dinner, desert, and even licorice for the movie.  Summers in Millcreek rock.  We really love our community.

8.14.2011

Love

My niece is such a cutie.
My family and I went camping last week in Fremont Indian State Park.  On our last day, my niece Mercedes wrote this in the dirt "for the whole family".

Love that girl.

More pictures of that little excursion to come soon.

I'm still figuring out everything about our new Mac.  That is my excuse for the lack of blogging lately.  I have a lot of fun things going on in August so, I better figure it out soon.

8.11.2011

Chocolate

I have been craving chocolate lately.
Like crazy.
We went to Smith's and got THE best chocolate cake ever.
Before I knew it, I was down to one single slice left.
Howie had only had one chunk of it.
Today he came home to see that this was all that remained of the cake.
He turned to me and asked "Gee, did you have any help with that?"
To which I replied "Yes...a fork."

8.10.2011

Never. Give. Up.

After reading one too many news reports on riots, the Dow drop of 4.6%, and murders, I came across this story today and found it very refreshing.

Enjoy.

Kathryn Stockett's 'The Help' Turned Down 60 Times Before Becoming a Best Seller
by: MORE Magazine


If you ask my husband my best trait, he’ll smile and say, “She never gives up.” But if you ask him my worst trait, he’ll get a funny tic in his cheek, narrow his eyes and hiss "She. Never. Gives. Up."

It took me a year and a half to write my earliest version of The Help. I’d told most of my friends and family what I was working on. Why not? We are compelled to talk about our passions. When I’d polished my story, I announced it was done and mailed it to a literary agent.

Six weeks later, I received a rejection letter from the agent, stating, “Story did not sustain my interest.” I was thrilled! I called my friends and told them I’d gotten my first rejection! Right away, I went back to editing. I was sure I could make the story tenser, more riveting, better.

A few months later, I sent it to a few more agents. And received a few more rejections. Well, more like 15. I was a little less giddy this time, but I kept my chin up. “Maybe the next book will be the one,” a friend said. Next book? I wasn’t about to move on to the next one just because of a few stupid letters. I wanted to write this book.

A year and a half later, I opened my 40th rejection: “There is no market for this kind of tiring writing.” That one finally made me cry. “You have so much resolve, Kathryn,” a friend said to me. “How do you keep yourself from feeling like this has been just a huge waste of your time?”

That was a hard weekend. I spent it in pajamas, slothing around that racetrack of self-pity—you know the one, from sofa to chair to bed to refrigerator, starting over again on the sofa. But I couldn’t let go of The Help. Call it tenacity, call it resolve or call it what my husband calls it: stubbornness.

After rejection number 40, I started lying to my friends about what I did on the weekends. They were amazed by how many times a person could repaint her apartment. The truth was, I was embarrassed for my friends and family to know I was still working on the same story, the one nobody apparently wanted to read.

Sometimes I’d go to literary conferences, just to be around other writers trying to get published. I’d inevitably meet some successful writer who’d tell me, “Just keep at it. I received 14 rejections before I finally got an agent. Fourteen. How many have you gotten?”

By rejection number 45, I was truly neurotic. It was all I could think about—revising the book, making it better, getting an agent, getting it published. I insisted on rewriting the last chapter an hour before I was due at the hospital to give birth to my daughter. I would not go to the hospital until I’d typed The End. I was still poring over my research in my hospital room when the nurse looked at me like I wasn’t human and said in a New Jersey accent, “Put the book down, you nut job—you’re crowning.”

It got worse. I started lying to my husband. It was as if I were having an affair—with 10 black maids and a skinny white girl. After my daughter was born, I began sneaking off to hotels on the weekends to get in a few hours of writing. I’m off to the Poconos! Off on a girls’ weekend! I’d say. Meanwhile, I’d be at the Comfort Inn around the corner. It was an awful way to act, but—for God’s sake—I could not make myself give up.

In the end, I received 60 rejections forThe Help. But letter number 61 was the one that accepted me. After my five years of writing and three and a half years of rejection, an agent named Susan Ramer took pity on me. What if I had given up at 15? Or 40? Or even 60? Three weeks later, Susan sold The Help to Amy Einhorn Books.

The point is, I can’t tell you how to succeed. But I can tell you how not to: Give in to the shame of being rejected and put your manuscript—or painting, song, voice, dance moves, [insert passion here]—in the coffin that is your bedside drawer and close it for good. I guarantee you that it won’t take you anywhere. Or you could do what this writer did: Give in to your obsession instead.

And if your friends make fun of you for chasing your dream, remember—just lie.